VALIDATION
When the performance stops, the internal applause finally begins.
A 3 day live experience where you finally stop waiting to be told you are good enough mother, and you know in your body that you have been, all along.
Hosted by Maria Banobre
Validation
A 3 day transformational experience for mothers - bring your fire, bring your false identities and let's burn them down together.
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You have done the work. You understand your patterns. You know about nervous systems and your inner child and the wicked ways of the patriarchy.
And yet on an ordinary Tuesday, when the children are melting down and the job is demanding and your inner critic is narrating your downfall in real time, you still feel trapped inside a version of yourself that is not the whole truth of who you are.
Trapped, because parts of you, the truest, wildest, most knowing parts, learned a very long time ago that it wasn't safe to be seen in, let alone lead, your life.
So they went quiet and let other parts of you take over; the ones who knew how to wear the masks, how to play the acceptable roles and who said yes at all the right times.
You've been silently (unknowingly) waiting for the right moment to bring your hidden parts back online, because you've known all along you we're here for something different.
VALIDATION is that moment.
Over 3 days, a circle of like minded awakening mothers will meet live to dismantle the performance identities you've been unknowingly forced to claim, the ones that have kept you hidden from the life you've known somewhere deep inside, is genuinely, soulfully, unapologetically yours.
Not a different life, this one, but lived from the inside out.
This isn't about burning your life down, it's about seeing it through a different lens, a lens of truth, your truth, because then it naturally rearranges itself to suit your new perspective.
One where you mother from overflow rather than sacrifice. Where you trust that you can put your children instead of your career first, without going bankrupt. Where you can slow down without fear and be present for the golden years you can feel slipping through your fingers.
Over these three days we will open ourselves up to really feeling what we know to be true but not able to fully grasp in our reality. Through somatic journeying and quantum nervous system recalibration, we will flip the script, not in your mind but in your body, so you get to walk away with a whole new way of holding yourself as a mother and a woman.
And once you do, watch how your life begins to rearrange itself around who you actually are rather than who you were conditioned to be.
VALIDATION
A 3 day live experience where you'll stop seeking for approval and discover the only validation that was ever going to set you free was always inside you.
MOTHER THIS IS FOR YOU IF...
You have been doing the work and something still hasn't shifted
You understand your patterns but cannot seem to change them from inside your own head
You feel like a lost teenager underneath the capable mother exterior and you have never understood why
You love your children completely and you are exhausted by the performing of motherhood
You know something has to change but you cannot see how without losing everything you have built
You have a not-quite-right feeling that has been with you so long you have almost stopped noticing it
You are ready — even if you are not sure what for yet
DAY ONE
AWAKEN
The life you were sold vs the one that's been calling you back.
You built the career, you made the money, you ticked all the boxes, yet somewhere underneath the relentless forward motion a feeling has been growing, quiet at first, then impossible to ignore, that something essential about the way you are living is deeply, fundamentally wrong.
Somehow the priorities have been in the wrong order. Career before children, rushing over rest, money instead of mothering. You were handed a map that was never meant to lead you where you were meant to go. The false feminist promise to have it all, do it all, be it all, was not liberation, it was the patriarchy in lipstick and high heels. It's kept you oriented around external validation, productivity as worth, and money as the measure of your value and it called it freedom.
Day 1 we name the invisible conditioning that made you believe the performance was safety and we'll recalibrate the nervous system to expand into the perspective shift so you can finally anchor your truth.You will leave seeing yourself, perhaps for the first time, not as a woman who has been failing at motherhood, but as a woman who was never properly prepared for it.
DAY TWO
DESCEND
Meeting the part of you that learned to perform.
When you crossed into motherhood nobody witnessed you. Nobody shared the wisdom with you that you were leaving one version of yourself behind and becoming someone completely different. Nobody held the old you with honour while the new you emerged. You crossed alone, uninitiated, with the maiden self fully intact, if a little broken and she has been running your motherhood ever since.
Day 2 is where you meet the part of you who learned to perform and finally begin to understand how she remains lost within you, why she built the strategies she built to survive, and how she has been quietly running your life from the place of her deepest unmet needs.
Through deep embodied work we will take her through her long-awaited death and rebirth, keeping everything that is still yours whilst alchemising the rest. She does not disappear. She is finally allowed to rest.
DAY THREE
RECLAIM
The initiated mother; embodied, rooted, real.
She mothers from the inside out. She moves through her day without the constant low hum of performance and monitoring. She sits in a meeting and speaks from what she actually thinks. She is present with her children. She holds the chaos of an ordinary day without losing herself inside it.
She is not a fantasy. She is what becomes available when the maiden is finally laid to rest and the initiated mother steps forward.
Day 3 is where you meet her through a ritual journey and you begin the journey of embodying her; how she moves, how she thinks, what she feels. The start of the journey of coming home to the mother you were always meant to be; present, rooted, and self-led.
At the end of a powerful 3 days together you will leave seeking validation from no one, but yourself.
ADDITIONAL ALCHEMY
Intentional Container
We will come together with powerful intention, energetically weaving the vision together of the mothers we know we came here to be. This work goes deeper than just individually setting ourselves free, this is a collective mission that I am honoured to hold with you.
Identity Re-coding
Together we will do group identity re-coding - powerful subconscious energy work to shift false narratives we are personally and collectively holding that are limiting our ability to step into the motherhood we know we are meant for.
Private Telegram Group
Receive additional transmissions and the ability to share and connect with like minded mothers in a private messenger group - levelling up your experience for profound change.
VALIDATION
Stop waiting for the approval that will never come - it's time to lead yourself into the motherhood you were always meant for.
JOIN YOUR AWAKENING TRIBE OF MOTHERS HERE
Sharifa
"Maria you are a radiant, abundant, goddess! You've lit something inside of me again. The amount of downloads I got working with you was amazing. I think everyone needs to know about this work it’s just so interesting and explains a lot - just wow. Thank you so much for always giving so much and just being you and bringing in these beautiful codes and information - oh my god - I'm so excited, I feel so happy - you really made me connect to my soul purpose and my soul self.
The way I mother and run my business has changed so much since working with you. I have strong boundaries, I put myself first, I feel abundant and I love my life.
I can really feel like anything is possible for me now! My heart has opened, Maria, thank you."
Rhonda
"I was ready for radical change in my life and despite reading all the self help books and speaking to life coaches I didn't quite get the results I was looking for.
Working with Maria is like having a spirit guide in human form with you constantly guiding you. She has a gift to read unseen energy and intuitive ability on the direction forward. She IS an angel in human form! I'm convinced!
I was able to courageously face every hurt, trauma and fear and heal myself to this point where I now fully know and accept the truth of who I am. I am living in the freedom I wished and dreamed about! There are no limits in my mind as I've learned how to embody wholeness, a concept I never quite understood but it's been the missing puzzle piece all along for me."
Lauren
"Before working with Maria I felt very stuck & stagnant with my life without knowing where I wanted to go. I was afraid to speak up and be my authentic self fearing I would be misunderstood. I was dealing with a lot of shame and had a history of punishing myself.
However, since working with Maria I have felt a huge shift & transformation. Maria has helped my self worth and trust in myself massively. I feel comfortable now to turn my attention inwards & give myself the love, attention & validation I deserve. I’m much more tuned in to what feels good & I allow myself to follow that feeling which has lead to INCREDIBLE opportunities opening up!
I will forever treasure Maria!"
Meet your guide, Maria
I am a transformational mentor for mothers — and I have lived every part of what I am about to take you through.
The postpartum that unravelled me. The career I built to prove I was enough. The father wound I didn't know I was carrying until it poured out of me at my children. The moment in my kitchen when the woman I was actually meant to be broke through and I finally understood that everything I had been calling failure was always the beginning of my becoming.
I do not work in the mind. I work in the body; in the nervous system, in the somatic memory, in the lineage, because that is where lasting change actually lives. I have sat with mothers in the places they thought nobody would follow them. And I have watched, every single time, as the woman underneath the performance finally had enough safety to come forward.
She is extraordinary. She always was.
I cannot wait to meet yours.
I don't think I can attend all 3 days live - will there be a replay?
I've done so much work on myself - how is this different?
What does it mean to be in a women's circle?
I resonate with what you're saying but I feel resistance to joining.
VALIDATION
You have been waiting for proof that another way is possible. Validation is where you stop waiting and become the proof yourself.
JOIN OUR CIRCLE HERE